44 Lessons in 44 Years

Yesterday was my birthday 🥳 and I’m celebrating my arrival to this world. I've compiled 44 lessons that 44 years of experience taught me. Dive in!

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Today is my birthday 🥳 and I’m celebrating my arrival to this world 💫
Here are 44 lessons that 44 years of experience taught me: 

1. How to be a mum

2. How lionesses feel 

3. How to put another soul in front of you, protecting it with all you’ve got, without losing yourself 

4. How to raise a child on your own, with a loving tribe around you

5. How to ask for help

6. How to break down & still stay in one piece

7. How to keep an open heart even when the world tells me I need to hate and fear

8. How to trust myself while people call me names and try to convince me I’m paranoid/crazy/extreme/fill in the blank

9. How to recover: rearrange myself & embrace change

10. How to drop my ego

11. How to admit I was wrong/lied to/manipulated/blind or any other trait that didn’t serve me or others 

12. How to own my fuckups, take responsibility and see them as part of my journey

13. How to stay humble 

14. How to find sovereignty in every walk of life

15. How to keep the thirst for life & knowledge

16. How to bring peace internally, which ripples and creates peace externally

17. How to let go of toxic relationships, and discover new & amazing friends

18. How to follow my gut & make a living out of it

19. How to be all of me

20. How to be of service of humanity

21. How to be grateful and appreciate life

22. How to love myself & others

23. How to see beauty around me, even when life seems dark & evil

24. How to connect to nature, how to speak to plants

25. How to stand on stages, even when I’m doubtful and afraid

26. How to constantly look for the next challenge

27. How to rediscover who I am

28. How to let go of control

29. How to think, learn and feel

30. How to teach and share

31. How to grasp time, space, money, information and energy, and channel them, play with them, manipulate them

32. How to expand my consciousness & allow myself to explore higher realms and dimensions 

33. How to navigate between spirituality & physicality 

34. How to find a renewed appreciation for god, creation, source 

35. How to release someone, even when you love them and want them around

36. How to slow down, and what it enables

37. How to always create ‘win-win’ situations, or close to them

38. How to thank. From the heart. 

39. How to grow, even in the tightest situations

40. How to walk in the fire without getting burnt

41. How to rise up to my highest calling

42. How to connect with my higher-self & have faith

43. How to project my voice in a way that makes a difference 

44. How to be LOVE. 

I’m a student of life, humbled and privileged to be alive during this great time of change, grateful for the love and support around me, eager to see how life unfolds from this moment on, and hoping for humanity to embrace change and find more love in our hearts, to see the other & understand we are all one. ♥️

Thank you for being with me on this wild journey called life.

Let me know which one of these lessons resonates most with you? 💫

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